I’ll be happy when…


It is easy to get into the habit of thinking “I’ll be happy when…

I get married00014
I have kids
I get out of this marriage
my kids leave home
I get a promotion
I get well
my kids behave better

Why not be happy today? Psychologists and success coaches say that the thoughts you are thinking right now and today are creating your future. The feelings you are feeling now and today are creating your thoughts and actions that create your future. Emotion causes motion, in other words, when we feel strongly about something, we take action.

Nothing positive ever came from thinking negative.” ~Many people

Many good things come from thinking positive. Dr. Norman Vincent Peale wrote many books and traveled around the world giving speeches about the power of positive thinking. He saw many people changed for the better by the power. He himself was a very timid person until a college professor took him aside one day and told him to get rid of his timid nature. The professor told him that he was smart and hardworking, and would go far in life if he would get rid of his pessimism and timidity. At first, Peale was very upset about what the professor had said. But after he let the words sink in, he began to realize the professor was right. Peale began to slowly change, and never forgot how important it is to believe in yourself, to have faith in your abilities.

In the book Chicken Soup for the Soul: Think Positive, James Scott Bell writes about meeting Dr. Peale. He said it was a day that changed his life. Bell and his wife came to a point in their life when they began to wonder why everything was going wrong. Then Bell began thinking about positive thinking and shared the idea with his wife. They both began to think positive instead of negative and soon their life had turned around.

I realize that some people’s problems are so difficult that a little positive thinking won’t help. But maybe a lot of positive thinking will. Morris Goodman, who was seriously injured in an airplane crash, could not breathe without a machine, or swallow, walk, talk or do anything except blink his eyes. But he had extraordinary faith that he could walk out of that hospital by Christmas. No one believed that he could do it, especially not the doctors. But because of his amazing faith he learned how to talk, eat and swallow, walk and live a rather normal life.


Comments

33 responses to “I’ll be happy when…”

  1. Kjackson00 Avatar
    Kjackson00

    I’m really glad I decided to open my reader this morning… I am one who has been dealing with my happiness for tomorrow and forgeting that it must start today for changes to take place. Thank you sir for this wonderful and very insightful post!

    1. Thanks so much for telling me. I’m so glad I could help.

  2. glamorosarunnerphotoblog Avatar
    glamorosarunnerphotoblog

    More blog post about this topic 🙂 Very inspiring!

  3. A timely comment for me. Encouraging. 🙂

  4. Yep, I did that quite a few times — I had three cancer scares that turned out to be nothing because of positive thinking. Positive thinking, in my opinion, is the greatest gift that God has given us 🙂

    1. wow, great testimony

  5. Wow! I got the concept. Regardless of what negative events that have happened in the past in my life. Despite I just received a parking ticket. I am happy. For me, No time like the present to start being happy. i will continue saying, feeling, and visualizing my happiness. Thank You

    1. Yes. Well, a parking ticket is not bad compared to a lot of other things. 🙂

  6. Great advice. Not always the easiest to follow but I most certainly do the best I can. Wishing you many happy and positive thoughts.

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    1. gee, thanks. very kind of you

  8. My wife and son had a conversation when he was just in high school.
    Son: I’m goning to fail this test
    Mom: You have to be positive, keep a positive attitude
    Son: I’m positive I’m going to fail

  9. Thanks for the reminder, I needed this today.

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